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Couples' Commitment Quiz


Commitment is Critical
Commitment is critical regardless of your relationship status, whether you’re dating, cohabiting, or married. Without commitment, couples begin to nurture resentment for what they think is missing in their relationship instead of nurturing gratitude for what they have. 

​Based on a Gottman questionnaire, this quiz shows through your words and actions whether you are in the relationship for better or for worse. 


“Commitment is about choice. And it’s not just choosing your partner. It’s about choosing the relationship, day after day.” - Ghita

7 Out of 10 Commitment Rule
If you would like help with your love relationship, but you are not living with your partner, you may be better off having individual counselling to talk things out. According to the quiz, your commitment level needs to be at least 7/10. If you are unsure of your situation try the Tough Question Quiz below to discover your commitment level...

Tough Question QUIZ:
Asking the right questions of yourself and your partner, helps to uncover the causes beneath issues. Scale your answer from 1 - 10.
Scoring: 1-5: No or not so important; 5-10: Yes or very important.
  • I share deeply personal information about myself with my spouse. (Score: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)
  • I find myself thinking about my spouse during the day.
  • Because of my commitment to my spouse, I would not let others come between us.
  • I receive considerable emotional support from my spouse.
  • My relationship with my spouse is very romantic.
  • I expect my love for my spouse to last for the rest of my life.
  • I communicate well with my spouse.
  • I legitimately expect to treat my partner as well as, or better than, they treat me.
  • In a strong disagreement, I really believe that my partner is entitled to their opinion.
  • Under duress, I have the courage and tenacity to seek my partner’s reality and the courage to express my reality when the stakes are high.
  • Is it important to let your partner know what you think, feel, and are concerned about? (Even if they really can’t appreciate what they don’t understand.)
  • How much do you care about the price your partner will have to pay? (Everything has a price and we always pay for it in some way.) Is it low or high?

​Answers: 
If you score mostly low (under 7) on these questions, couples counselling may not be the best method.

How Much Have You Invested in Your Relationship?
If you are considering Couples Counselling, it may be the best investment you ever make in your relationship. Please read our happy stories on our Reviews and Testimonials page...

So, before you book with anyone else, do yourself a favour and have a quick, no obligation chat with Ghita. Please feel free to text Ghita for a Free 10 Minute Call-Back on ​0439 888 070.  ​
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  • Home
  • Counselling
    • Women's Counselling
    • Men's Counselling >
      • The Developing Man 6 Week Program
    • Anxiety and Stress Counselling
    • Depression Counselling
    • Grief and Loss Counselling
    • Walk and Talk Counselling
    • LBGTQA+ Counselling
    • Teen Counselling
    • Art Therapy
  • Couples Counselling
    • Pre-Session Reading >
      • Before Booking Checklist
      • How to Prepare for Couples Counselling
      • How Effective is Couples Therapy
      • Online Couples Therapy
      • Marriage in Crisis >
        • Will Couples Counselling Help Toxic Relationships?
        • Intensive Two Day Couples Marathon (Couples in Crisis)
    • Quizzes & Ebooks >
      • 21 Free Ebooks
      • Couples Quizzes >
        • Reawaken Desire Quiz
        • Couples Commitment Quiz
    • Couples Packages >
      • Package One: One Day Couples Retreat - Gold Coast
      • Package Two: Signature 3 Step Couples Package - Gold Coast
      • Package Three: Five Week Couples Therapy - Gold Coast
      • ​Package Four: Signature 3 Step Day Retreat - Gold Coast
      • Package Five: Intensive 2 Day Marathon - Gold Coast
      • ​Package Six: Intensive Half Marathon Retreat - Gold Coast
    • Methods >
      • Gottman Method Concepts
      • Couples Relationship Toolbox
      • Same Sex LGBTQ+ Couples Counselling
      • Pre-Marital Counselling - Gold Coast
    • Client Resources >
      • Promo Code Savers
      • Ghita's Podcast
      • Youtube Relationship Hacks
      • Homework
  • Hypnotherapy
    • Free Relaxation Audio
    • Quit Drinking Program
    • Time Line Therapy
    • Past Life Regression
  • Anger Control
    • Gestalt Therapy
    • All Out of Rage 6 Week Program
  • EMDR
  • Mindset & NLP
    • Life Coaching
    • NLP >
      • NLP Submodalities
      • Time Line Therapy
    • MIndset Programs >
      • The Breakthrough Program
      • The Developing Man program
      • All Out of Rage (Anger Program)
      • The Worthy Woman Program
      • Xpression Program
  • FAQ
    • Cancellation Policies
    • Telehealth
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