separation and divorce counselling.
★★★★★ Testimonial 2018: Jennifer Dixon (62), Tweed Heads.
"I feel so much lighter now. I thought I could NEVER, EVER forgive my ex. But, I think I can now."
It is not uncommon for clients to come to Ghita to talk through their grief about separation and divorce. Often clients find forgiving ex-partners to be a difficult task. This is because there is trauma attached to feeling rejected, betrayed or disappointed. The result of this is not being able to let go, to forgive and to have our Internal critic constantly telling us things that make us have regrets. Statements such as: "I Should have..., I will never..., I can't....," etcetera. This internal critic can be quite a nag. It causes suffering which reveals itself as depression, anxiety, new relationship problems, insomnia, major self-doubt and other issues. Moreover, when we nurture these thoughts over time, it causes massive suffering.
As a counsellor, it is Ghita's job to break down these beliefs one at a time, so that you can consciously uncouple and happily move on with your life.
Common Issues:
"I feel so much lighter now. I thought I could NEVER, EVER forgive my ex. But, I think I can now."
It is not uncommon for clients to come to Ghita to talk through their grief about separation and divorce. Often clients find forgiving ex-partners to be a difficult task. This is because there is trauma attached to feeling rejected, betrayed or disappointed. The result of this is not being able to let go, to forgive and to have our Internal critic constantly telling us things that make us have regrets. Statements such as: "I Should have..., I will never..., I can't....," etcetera. This internal critic can be quite a nag. It causes suffering which reveals itself as depression, anxiety, new relationship problems, insomnia, major self-doubt and other issues. Moreover, when we nurture these thoughts over time, it causes massive suffering.
As a counsellor, it is Ghita's job to break down these beliefs one at a time, so that you can consciously uncouple and happily move on with your life.
Common Issues:
- Feeling Stuck: Life Hasn't Turned Out How we Wanted
- Can't Get Over Infidelity or Betrayal
- Moral Disapproval of Self and Others
- Long-Term Anger and Resentment
- Awareness of a Pattern of Choosing Unworthy Partners
- Love Morphing into Hate From Rejection or Pain
- Using the Children to Get Back at Your Ex-Partner
- Self-Worth Issues
- A Mid-Life Crisis After Marriage Failure
- Family Dispute Mediation (FDR)
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